Re-Ignite The Spark.
Any relationship no matter if it’s a long distance relationship, should be bloomed hand in hand, step by step. To be more precise, whatever your current relationship status is, you need to put in efforts for it to be a perfect relationship. People could never be moulded into perfectionism but relationships could be. Phones, social media, 24*7 access to the internet and busy life schedules have dampened the sparks of our relationships in some way or the other.
For your relationship to bloom and sparkle like it did when it started, start giving it the kind of importance you used to give when it all started. When you weren’t sure of its longevity, when you feared loss and when you actually cared about the time investment. A relationship without the slight burn of fear isn’t a safe path to stroll. Because for the things that you don’t fear losing
won’t be worth your attention or your efforts in your own eyes. Let that fear burn in a little.
Now, there come instances when too much time investments and importance giving also kills. Meeting up with your loved ones once in a while, listening to their voice at least once a day, might it be just for a few minutes, texting mornings, nights and a few lovely texts are the essential ingredients for a healthy and happy relationship which attains perfectionism if proper understanding and personal space goes hand in hand. But modern relationships do get complexed in practising extremities that aren’t required. Nobody could withstand a bodyguard with over possessive or nosy nature. We want a partner, a soul mate and not someone to squeeze seconds, minutes and hours of the starting days and have nothing to chatter about and define boredoms during the later days. Give space to each other, understand each other’s lifestyles, give lovely surprises whenever there is a need. Express your love whenever needed instead of reciting it like a rhyme or mantra every time you text or talk or meet. Words when repeated, at times lacking expressions or emotions when it’s a bad day at work, they lose their feel.
Anything done to the extremities or not done needful enough loses its spark and with time needs to be re-ignited.
For your relationship to bloom and sparkle like it did when it started, start giving it the kind of importance you used to give when it all started. When you weren’t sure of its longevity, when you feared loss and when you actually cared about the time investment. A relationship without the slight burn of fear isn’t a safe path to stroll. Because for the things that you don’t fear losing
Now, there come instances when too much time investments and importance giving also kills. Meeting up with your loved ones once in a while, listening to their voice at least once a day, might it be just for a few minutes, texting mornings, nights and a few lovely texts are the essential ingredients for a healthy and happy relationship which attains perfectionism if proper understanding and personal space goes hand in hand. But modern relationships do get complexed in practising extremities that aren’t required. Nobody could withstand a bodyguard with over possessive or nosy nature. We want a partner, a soul mate and not someone to squeeze seconds, minutes and hours of the starting days and have nothing to chatter about and define boredoms during the later days. Give space to each other, understand each other’s lifestyles, give lovely surprises whenever there is a need. Express your love whenever needed instead of reciting it like a rhyme or mantra every time you text or talk or meet. Words when repeated, at times lacking expressions or emotions when it’s a bad day at work, they lose their feel.
Anything done to the extremities or not done needful enough loses its spark and with time needs to be re-ignited.
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